Avoy, Babuy, Bhurgim ( Parental Care)
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- Necio D’Souza, Raia-Goa.
Zannkar sangtat ki zannem bhurgeacho obhinoy rit-mannsugen soboila zalear,
to vo tem fuddle-i obhinoy bore toren vhoronk yexesvi zata. Somaz nitoll ani
promannik urtolo zalear avoy-bapaicho obhinoy ut’tom (excellent) zavop
gorjecho. Hanv Mumbai-nt eka fankivont prokaxon ghorak kam kortana, sabar
pustokam kodden mhozo sombond ailolo asa. Proof-reader mhonn kam
polletana, kitlixinch pustokam toyar zavpak mhozo hatbhar labhla. Hangach hanv ‘1001
Ways to Connect with your Kids’ hea pustokachea mogan poddlam. Sonvsar-bhor
lakhanim tacheo proti khopleat.
Hea pustoka vorvim mhaka zannovlem ki avoy-bapain voir
kaddlelim choddxim bhurgim pokoll (hollow) ani uplapea (shallow) mogan
vaddlelim astat. Jivitachi khori bhorti mellonkna zavn, jivit koxea-koxem-i
vhanvon veta. Noitik gunnachi (moral values) vadd na zal’lean, vaddtte pirayer
tim gondollak sampoddtat. Borem kitem ani vaitt kitem, hantlo forok kollonk
avgodd lagta. Vaddtte pirayer khuxal asche bodlek niraxi zatat. Jiv
hogddavpachim porian pavlam marat. Vidvan sangtat te bhaxen monxachea mendvacho
khoro vikas poilea tea satvea vorsa meren ghoddtta. Heach kallant dor eka bhurgeak
borea gunnachi posvonn mellpak zai. Durdoivan choddxe pavtti oxem ghoddonam.
Avoy-bapaik aplim bhurgim azunui lhan asat koxim dispak lagta, dekhun bori
xikovnn divpachi bhairaitat.
Avoy-bapuy zavop khoreponnim ek dennem. Sonvsarantlea
sorv dhormanim kuttumb ghoddovpache manddnnek vortem sthan dilam. Kuttumb
bandpachi bunead lognik jivitak zoddlea, ti ek bhes bori gozal. Logna viret
zolmol’lea bhurgea koddlean ami borem jivit anvddevop pixeponn thartolem. Toxem
polleunk gelear avoy zavop vo bapuy zavop ek avghodd kam nhoy. Monzat pasun
avoy vo bapuy zatat. Punn monxam ani her jivam modem ontor asa ani sodankal
astoli. Monis ho xritticho rakhonndar mhonttoch jivitacho dor ek obhinoy
zannvayen sarunk zai. Kaim zann aplea bhurgeank vell dinvcho soddun poslelea
zonvarank chodd ditat. Tanchi hispa bhair apurbay kortat, mogan vengoitat. Bible
sangta bhurgeank samballunk, tori sunneam mazram khatir sakrifis kortat tim
polleunk vichitr dista.
Dusre vatten, khaxa avoy-bapuy bhurgeak bori dekh
diunk kaim pavtti fattim poddleant; zalear svotachea bhurgeak zolmak
haddinastanam kaim zann xrextt avoy vo babuy zaunk pavleant. Bhoktivont madr
Theresa, bhagevont Don Bosco, oxeo kitleoxeoch veakti amkam melltat. Kaim
vanzttim zoddio bhurgeancho boro samball kortelim pollovn jiv dhados zata.
Bhurgeachi porvorish korpak avoy-bapay koddlean chuki
zatat teo kaim zannak somzonant. Thoddeank kollttat punn nittayer ghalunk vell
na. Choddxe pavtti chuki khub usram kollttat, ani teo sudravop koxench xokya
nasta. Votlelem dudh bhorunk mellona tech bhaxen sobavak zalelem luskonn bhorun
kaddunk zaina. Dekhik ek veason laglem zalear bholaikek luskonn zata; tedna
volt marun survatechea zagear vochunk mellona. Kaim pavtti khorea mogachea
zager, ladd-nokre melltat. Osle porvorixin vadd zal’lim bhurgim fuddarak yevpi
sonkoxtank ang kaddttolim nodrek yetat.
Bhurgeachi bori vadd zavpak bhurgeak xallent bhorti
kortat. Hanga bori rit-rovis melltta tem zalench, tori bhurgem khoimchean tori
vaitt gunn apnnavpachi xokeatay nakarunk zaina. Aiz dor khinnak ogunnak
sampoddpachi vatt toyar asta. Advarlelim follam khavpachi ruch utpon zata.
Magir il’lem il’lem tantuntlem vikh mendvant rigta ani bhurgem padd zata. Hea
pasot dor khinnak avoy ani bapuy chotur asunk zai. Apunn kamant-dhond’deant
gul’l asta mhonn apli zapsaldarki visronk favona. Duddu komavpant sogllem
dhean-mon lavop ani bhurgeachem jivit vankddem vochunk divop, hantun xanneponn
koslem!
Duddu aslear tujean kitem-i korunk zata, oso choddxea
lokacho somoz asa. Duddvanim sukh mellona, bori dekh mellona, xanti mellona
mhonn kollpak vell lagta. Jivit sarunk duddu gorjeche hem konnuch nakarunk
xokona, tori duddu sorvosv mhonn mandunk favona. Aplea bhurgeancher nodor
dovorpak duddu ek addkoll, hacher niyall korunk zai. Duddvancher matlele kitle
ghorabe kosllon gheleat te nodrek haddunk zai. Dadlo chint’ta aplem kam
zoddpachem, bailanim ghor samballpachem. Bhurgeank porvorish divpachem kam
ostoreamchem, hem chintop vankddem asa. Ho obhinoy bail ani dadlo mhonn nhoy,
bogor bapuy ani avoy mhonn ek-sarko korunk zai.
Zaite pavtti aplea bhurgeancho mog korta mhonn provar
korpak sabar bhetto tankam ditat. Bhurgeank fuddem vostumchoch mog lagta,
avoy-bapuy mogacho dolal disunk lagta. Thoim mogachem, sevechem natem asona.
Mogachem natem ghoddtta jedna bhurgea sovem choddant chodd vell sarta tedna.
Aplem kalliz-mon eka-meka sovem ugtem dovortat tednach mogache bandpas mozbut
zatat. Durdoivan oxem korpachi kopxi aizchea kallavelea avoy-bapay sovem bhov
komi promannan polleunk melltta.
Khoimcheai bhurgeak 18 vorsamchi piray zai meren
nirontori margdorxon mellonk zai. Tache dor ek halchalicher nodor aspak zai.
Tachi dor ek bhavnam somzun ghevunk zai. Bhirantichem vatavoronn bilkul asonk
favona. Chukik sojea divpachi manddnnim monant ballgunk favona. Zata titlo vell
divn somzavn soglle proxn mittovpak zai. Aplem bhurgem ghorant ani ghora bhair
konna sorxim vell posar korta, tache ixtt/ixttinim konn; hea vixim mahiti aspak
zai. Boreanche songotik aslear borem zata ani vaittantlean vaittuch nirmann
zata. Ekuch kusko ambo puro boroborchea ambeank kusovpak. Ixtt tor zai, konnuch
eksuro asop borem na. Gineanachi favo ti vadd zavpak eka-mekak sohokar
divop-ghevop gorjechem.
Bhurgea vorvim avoy-bapaik man melltta to bexttoch
yena. Tea pasot bhorpur sakrifis korchi poddtta. ‘Tum Sachin tendulkar-acho
bapuy, tum Amir Khan-achi avoy’ oxe toren lok vakhanddtta tedna, jivak kitlem
dadhosponn mellta asot! Yexesvi bhurgea vorvim eka bapaik vo avoik man melltta,
hea von vorto man dusro na. Devache ani Monxache nodren ho ek vorixtt puraskar.
Zor tuka ani mhaka oslo man mellonk zai aslear, ami bhurgeam vixim bhorpur
kallji ghevpak zai. Oxench korunk hea novea vorsache survatek nichev korum-ia.
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This article was published
in the Goa’s Popular Monthly JIVIT, Jan’2014 issue.
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